More Than Just a Day: What Mother’s Day Really Means to Me

By Ava Lin, 8th Grade | Carmel Valley Middle School
LYBA Member | Poet | Future Youth Ambassador for Family Wellness

Every year, I make a homemade card and bring my mom breakfast in bed for Mother’s Day. It’s a tradition we started when I was little, and it’s something I’ll never stop doing. But as I’ve grown older, I’ve realized that Mother’s Day isn’t just about flowers and pancakes—it’s about recognizing the person who gives you her all, every single day.

My mom is the strongest, most graceful woman I know. She works a full-time job, takes care of our family, drives me to endless after-school activities, and somehow still manages to remember my favorite tea and the name of every friend I’ve ever had. She doesn’t ask for much. She doesn’t need a fancy gift. She just wants us to appreciate her.

Through LLUXXALL, I’ve learned that gratitude is a form of etiquette—one that’s too often overlooked. Expressing appreciation, especially to the people closest to us, is a habit we should practice year-round, not just one day in May. Kind words, thoughtful gestures, and quiet respect are some of the most powerful forms of communication.

This Mother’s Day, I’m not just writing “thank you” in a card—I’m telling my mom what she means to me face-to-face. I’m also making a point to help more around the house, speak kindly even when I’m tired, and hug her without her having to ask.

Because one day is never enough to celebrate someone who gives you their heart every day.

So here’s to the moms who raise leaders, who love unconditionally, and who teach us what it means to show up with strength and grace. You’re not just appreciated—you’re admired.